i got married at a relatively very young age of 22 at sg's standard, not only a ROM but a full Chinese wedding. so imagine the amount of "any good news" question asked at every family gathering?
people tend to assume that when you get marry young, you should get pregnant in a click. like effortless.
not that we had been trying hard, in fact, we had been trying not to get pregnant the past 2 years as we felt we were not ready then. even then, it was natural family planning.
so now that we are trying, i suddenly have a fear. that maybe, we are one of those couples in agony months after months? what if it never happen? sometimes i read of some women's pain when month after month, the pregnancy test kit only show a single line. like this lady's experience.
the interesting thing is, people seems to get pregnant when they dont't want to get. i see couples having children immediately after the wedding and saying that it was not what they planned but God gave the child to them.
so what's God's plan for us?
We were thinking of going away for a nice holiday to try and get things going.
I am trying to get relax, but i have been having very poor sleep recently, possibly over planning for my new website and studio.
i need to relax!
o ya, and i read a really funny post about a gynae trying to get pregnant - here
it's funny because she did exactly what i thought of doing but just that i have no means to access a microscope!
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